Sex talk: How to inspire a man to want to explore you?

2022-06-23 0 By

Bai Xiaojing is a freelance writer who is eager to fall in love with words until she grows old. She focuses on emotional analysis and interprets the big world from a little woman’s perspective.There are many problems in marriage that men and women do not understand, but are somehow driven to form.Men after marriage in the outside, more is to seek body and soul satisfaction;And the woman’s affair, basically is to make up for the lack of emotion and spirit.The contradiction between man and woman is, in the final analysis, the ambiguity and conflict between the sexes in values and the view of love.And it is precisely because of the difference between each other, just aroused all kinds of love and hatred in the world.In a man’s heart, marriage means the end of youth;In a woman’s mind, marriage means the continuation of love.It is easy for a woman to connect love with marriage, especially if she is committed to her partner.But in a man’s mind, falling in love and getting married are two different things.The woman you like, and the marriage object, can be different candidates.So, in the years after marriage, even though a man has a wife, a son and a daughter, he still can’t control a restless heart, wanting to peep out the outside world.This is not to say that men are passionate can be understood and forgiven, but from a physiological point of view to analyze, a little bit of philosophy in human nature.A lot of times, people like to think about our marriages in emotional and ethical terms.But sex is something we can’t avoid, something that is extremely important in our lives.Divorced from the original needs to talk about feelings and morality, will only be empty talk on paper.In other words, everyone knows the truth, but doing it is difficult.Men have a natural desire to explore strange women.This is also the motivation for male animals to pursue the opposite sex, it is the flesh that drives them forward.When a man meets a girl for the first time, he is more likely to be attracted to her by her looks, body, etc., and go after her not because of how much he loves her.They will try to please and take care of girls, but in their mind, how to get their physical needs met.But that doesn’t mean that men are devoid of emotion.Men will meet physical needs, gradually produce psychological attachment, and then develop emotional attachment.Women, on the other hand, don’t crave sex as much.So in the initial stage of their relationship, there will be differences in needs.Women tend to become emotionally attached to a man before they have physical needs.This phenomenon just shows that the reproduction instinct of human beings as animals, males always try their best to spread, while females choose carefully to ensure the evolution and superiority of the species.At the same time, when it comes to “sex”, women are constantly exploited once they are satisfied, while men remain almost unchanged.In this sense, after marriage, women become physically more powerful, while men become less capable.But for strange women, men have always maintained a positive desire to explore.Because strange women always give them a sense of mystery, this feeling is based on physical needs, not just how beautiful they are, or how much they love this woman.Women, on the other hand, are more likely to fall in love with other men once they have had sex with them by chance and experience intense pleasure for the first time.These carnal ties sometimes have the power to throw away the stability of life, whereas women are more easily captured by carnal feelings.So why, in the case of extramarital love, the woman will be like a moth to the flame into the “love” is hard to get out, while the man is sober and cold.Is it true that the feelings between husband and wife are difficult to resist the seven-year itch?In fact, only when psychological needs and physical needs are positively motivated, the relationship can be maintained to the maximum extent.If marriage relationship wants to get positive development, we must face up to these aspects of the problem, rather than escape the problem, intensify contradictions, so that each other to the point of breaking up.The following conclusions can be drawn: First, men and women treat feelings differently.The existence of sensibility accelerates the sublimation of both feelings and is a positive promotion.Second, without sufficient moral restraint and emotional foundation, sex can be a destructive blow to a family.Third, men generally cross boundaries because of the desire to explore, not easy to produce deep feelings.Women generally have emotional involvement in transgressions, which may be more difficult to withdraw;Fourth, in marriage, women can properly maintain a sense of mystery and freshness, stimulate men’s desire to explore;On the other hand, men should pay more attention to their wives in the spiritual level, recognize their efforts, and pamper their wives appropriately.All these will promote the positive development of marriage relationship both physically and psychologically.Junichi Watanabe, the Japanese love guru, wrote in his book Men Are Things:Watanabe chun a itself is a medical doctor, from his own perceptual experience, based on the theory of the medical and psychological, detailed analysis of the male from adolescence to mature stage of physical and mental development, their role in social and emotional life of inherent strengths and weaknesses, is designed to help men are more correctly know yourself a deeper understanding of men and women.The contents of this book directly analyze the essence of human nature, so that we can more rationally analyze the real reasons for a series of activities such as men, women, love, marriage and children.Interested friends, you can read.When the relationship is in a mess, don’t be too entangled and anxious, confused because you can’t see the reason and the truth, but when you objectively analyze, you will find that everything is nothing but this.Believe in the power of knowledge, a relationship can break your heart, but a wise mind will never let you down.